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Dr. John Gottman calls bids for connection the small, everyday moments that build or break a relationship. A shared laugh, a gentle touch, even a simple question or pointing out a bird. These are all ways we seek connection with our partners. The key? How we respond. Turning toward bids strengthens trust and intimacy, while turning away can create distance over time. Want to learn how to recognize and respond to bids for connection? Watch the full video on our youtube channel. https://youtu.be/o
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In this video, Dr. John and Dr. Julie Gottman show how responding to (or ignoring) small bids for attention can make or break connection over time. Turning toward each other, even with the small stuff, strengthens your relationship. 💬 How do you usually respond when your partner tries to connect? #GottmanMethod #BidsForConnection #RelationshipTips #TurnToward #EmotionalIntimacy #EverydayLove | The Gottman Institute
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Dr. Julie Gottman became a therapist because she was drawn to the power of deep listening. She believes that truly hearing and mirroring feelings helps people feel seen and understood. Gottman research shows that trust is built in small, everyday moments. When we listen with curiosity and respond with care, we create a foundation of emotional safety and connection. What’s one way you show the people in your life that they matter? | The Gottman Institute
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Never stop dating your partner! On this episode of Small Things Often, hear why it's important to pursue each other at every stage of your relationship to keep your connection strong: http://bit.ly/SmallThingsOften | The Gottman Institute
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Thank you to everyone who has listened to Small Things Often! Thousands of listeners have tuned in to discover small ways they can improve their relationships in five minutes or less. We're excited to be working on another season of Small Things Often. We'd love your feedback on what you want to hear more of. Comment below with your ideas, questions you'd like answered, or topics you'd like us to cover on Season 2. Make sure to subscribe to Small Things Often wherever you listen to podcasts to b
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Real connection is built in small moments of appreciation. In our upcoming Art and Science of Love workshop, Certified Gottman Therapists Faith Drew and George Bitar guide couples through research-based tools that strengthen friendship and emotional safety. Watch as they demonstrate one of the core practices, Fondness and Admiration, in action. Then join us live on July 26 and 27 to experience the full workshop from home. Learn more: https://bit.ly/44yWGC9 | The Gottman Institute
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