Affairs are the ultimate betrayal of trust — but according to relationship therapist Esther Perel, they’re more complicated than you might think. Here’s what drives infidelity and how to move forward from it: http://t.ted.com/jyR0Rqn | TED

Modern relationships are cauldrons of contradictory longings: safety and excitement, grounding and transcendence, the comfort of love and the heat of passion. | Esther Perel

On this week's episode of Where Should We Begin?, a woman is grappling with the aftermath of a tumultuous relationship with a narcissistic partner. First, he love bombed her and made her feel special--only to turn manipulative and aggressive in a time of need following her father's death. She doesn't know how to bounce back or how she will learn to trust again, which we discuss in this latest episode of the podcast. Have you ever been "love bombed"? Enjoy the full podcast on YouTube now: https:/

You’re dating an avoidant, because deep down you are also an avoidant. #avoidantattachment #attachmentstyles #relationshipadvice #relationshipproblems #psychologyfacts #fbreelsfypシ゚viralvideo | Esther Sarphatie

Am I being gaslit by my partner or am I being oversensitive? The question itself reveals so much. If you are constantly questioning and doubting yourself, then you know something's not right. Hear more about this episode on gaslighting and other episodes on my podcast Where Should We Begin?, which has now returned with a new season under The Vox Media Podcast Network. Tune in on Apple Podcasts and subscribe today. | Esther Perel

Earlier this month, I sat down with Dan Harris on the Ten Percent Happier podcast to talk about the "One Thing That Will Improve the Quality of Your Life." Listen to the full episode through the link below. https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/esther-perel-on-the-one-thing-that-will-improve/id1087147821?i=1000639230558 | Esther Perel

It all started with a secret. And over time, the secret turned into a lie. The lie turned into a deception. The deception turned into a betrayal. And now. It has become a fiasco.In the premiere episode of Where Should We Begin? titled "Donor Daddy", I delve into the intricate web of consequences that stem from a well-kept secret. Listen to the full episode on Apple Podcasts or your preferred podcast platform via the link in the comments. | Esther Perel